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The Wisdom of Christian
Fathers
What does it mean to be a “godly” father? What are
the challenges facing fathers in today’s world? What does God expect of me as a
father?
These are tough questions, especially considering
that we live in a time when some are trying to redefine the traditional family
structure. These questions could become frustrations in light of such “worldly
wisdom” (or confusion).
Thankfully, God has not left us without answers or
direction. In His revealed Word, He has shown us the precious gift He gave us in
Jesus Christ, our salvation from sin, death, and the devil. He has declared us
to be a new creation in Jesus (2 Corinthians 5:17), the old having passed away,
and all things have now become new. He has counted us as heirs with Jesus of
eternal life (Romans 8:17) and has called us to walk in the newness of life He
has purchased for us (Romans 6:4).
With this in mind, how are fathers to approach the
responsibilities of fatherhood and the preserving and supporting of life?
In past Bible studies, authors have appealed to the
book of Genesis to show that life is special and sacred. This is because that’s
how our God, the Father/Creator, views life. Lutherans have seen the creation of
life and its preservation to be succinctly defined in the First Article of the
Apostles’ Creed which reads:
I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of
heaven and earth.
This confession was expounded by Martin Luther, and
we find an interesting application to today’s fathers as we read:
I believe that God has made me and all creatures;
that He has given me my body and soul, eyes, ears,
and all my senses and still preserves them;
also clothing and shoes, meat and drink, house and home,
wife and children, fields, cattle, and all my goods;
that He defends me from all danger,
and guards and protects me against evil;
and all this purely out of fatherly divine goodness and mercy,
without any merit or worthiness in me;
for which it is my duty to thank and praise, to serve and obey Him.
This is most certainly true.
Dr. Luther never considered God to be a creator in
absentia, absent from His creation. He considered Him as a Creator who continues
to guide and nourish His creatures. This is the ultimate picture of fatherhood.
We as Christians should strive to show the same love and concern for life, both
mortal and eternal, toward those who depend upon us.
How, then, is this accomplished?
The Book of Proverbs is most instructive. Begin by
reading Proverbs 3:19-20.
With what characteristics did God create life? What do we as Christians seek,
second only to faith, in order to know how to please God (James 1:5-6)? Is the
outcome of such a search profitable (Proverbs 3:13-14)?
Now, read carefully the following passages and
meditate on what it is that we as fathers are to share with our children
(Proverbs 2:1-2; 3:1-2; 4:1-2; 5:1-2; 7:1-2). If we take these verses seriously,
we must ask ourselves, “Am I imparting God’s wisdom when dealing with my
children?” (Read Proverbs 4:5-9).
How, then, does one obtain such wisdom (Proverbs
1:7; 3:5-8; 9:10; 15:33)?
In all that we do, some form of wisdom is utilized,
whether we apply it in the workplace or at play or in dealing with family
members at home. Again, we must ask a question: “Which of the two types of
wisdom are we using?” How is this explained in James 3:13-18?
Neither people nor sin have changed since the Fall.
Our generation is also absorbed in evil desires and foolish greed. There is
continual evidence that many are walking the road to destruction because they
have never encountered—or have rejected—the wisdom of God concerning the things
of this life and the life to come.
Christian fathers have a hard “row to hoe” with all
the worldly influences that pull and tug at us and our children. Because it is
too much to tackle on our own, Jesus promised to be with us—not merely in Spirit
but in the flesh—as we receive Him through Word and Sacrament (Read John
15:1-11).
With His help, we can accomplish those tasks He
planned for us (Philippians 4:13; Ephesians 2:10).
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We Are
Children Of God
Isaiah 9:6
Ephesians 2:18-22
2
Corinthians 6:18 |
Fathers
To Avoid False Wisdom
Matthew 18:6,7
Mark
7:9-13
Ephesians 6:4 |
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God
Exemplifies Fatherly Love
Matthew 7:7-11
Hebrews 12:5-11 |
We Can’t
Succeed On Our Own
John
15:1-11
Philippians 4:13 |
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Walking
In Newness Of Life
Matthew 5:48
Romans 6:1-11 |
We Must
Pray For Our Children
2
Samuel 12:16
1
Chronicles 29:19
Job
1:5 |
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The Lord
Gives Wisdom
Proverbs 2 |
We Are To
Correct Children
Proverbs 19:18
Colossians 3:21
2
Timothy 3:16,17 |
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Children
Desire Instruction
Isaiah 54:13
Matthew 19:14,15
Luke
18:15-17 |
Within
The Body Of Believers
Joshua 8:35
2
Chronicles 20:13
Matthew 21:15,16 |
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What
Would God Have Us Teach?
Exodus 13:8-10, 14-16
Deuteronomy 6:4-9
John
21:15 |
The
Blessings Are Rich
Colossians 3:20
Proverbs 10:1; 23:24,25; 39:17
1
John 2:1-17 |
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